Be happy for no reason, like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you’re in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you. Deepak Chopra
I quite like this quote by Mr. Chopra. It took me a few days to understand what he meant, and I finally got there.
I’ve always seen happiness as a state of mind. It’s not something you can buy, or get given. It’s something you experience. It’s not a destination, it’s a journey. It’s a bunch of magical (happy) moments put together.
Of course there will be things that will influence it, but don’t let it dominate you.
One more thing I’ve understood about happiness, and that is you can’t be happy all the time. There will be moments in life that you will anger, lose hope, resent, sadden, grief, and be confuse. The thing to remember is to fully be present in those moments, cherish it. Listen to your thoughts. Don’t run away, don’t distract your self. Like a child, let it all out – cry, if you must. Remember, this moment will past, and once it has, you will be able to cherish your happy moments. Don’t lose faith.
Having fun in the kitchen, cooking, is one of my happy moments.
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An almost authentic Carbonara
Pecorino 1/2 cup grated (sheep cheese) or Parmesan
3 Egg yolks, cage free
Salt
Pepper
Pancetta fried with oil and garlic bulb, drained. Crisp.
Pasta enough for two
1 large mixing bowl (glass, preferably)
1 small bowl (any)
In the small bowl, mix the cheese and egg yolks.
Cook pasta (add two tsp of salt).
Drain pasta in the glass bowl – meaning you want the hot starchy water in the glass bowl, with your pasta still in the colander. The idea is to heat the glass bowl.
Then empty the glass bowl, wipe it.
Through in the pasta, and slowly fold in the rest of the ingredients.
Season with salt and pepper. Serve with grated Parmesan, if you want.
It’s the yummiest thing ever. Bon Appetito!